in the Neo-Pagan movement, we do not necessarily honor Gods in
male/female pairs. The boy/girl notion is one taken from the Pagan
fertility religion of Wicca and isnt necessarily appropriate to our
Gods, who often represent things other than fertility. So while a
Spring ritual held in honor of Freya and Frey as fertility deities
might wish to honor them together, there is no reason to include Frigg
in a ritual dedicated to Odin as the God of War.
Yule
Yule is the most important holiday of the year. Everyone is familiar
with the shortness of the deep winter days, but in the Scandinavian
countries this is of even greater importance. At the Yuletide there
is almost no sunlight at all, and the climate would have people bound
in their homes waiting for the return of Spring.
Yule is a long festival, traditionally held to be 12 days or more.
After Yule the days began to get longer and the festival represented
the breaking of the heart of winter and the beginning of the new year.
Yule was the holiday of either Thor or Frey, although there is no
reason not to honor both Gods in modern practice.
Frey is the God of fertility and farming and was honored at Yule in
the hopes that his time would soon return. Frey is also an important
God at this time as shown in the myth The Wooing of Gerd. Gerd is
Freys wife, and she was once a frost giant. Frey had seen her while
he was seated on Odins High Seat, and was utterly taken by her, but
she would not yield until Skirnir, Freys messenger or perhaps Frey in
disguise, threatened her with an eternity of cold. In this way, Frey
brings back the summer times by wooing a daughter of cold and frost.
His love for her brings warmth to her heart and to the land.
Thors position at Yule is a bit more savage. He is the sworn enemy
of the Frost Giants and Jotnar who rule the winter months, and as such
is honored as the God whos actions fight off these creatures and
bring back the spring.
Our kindred also honors Sunna, the Sun Goddess, at Yule. However, we
feel she is more important at Midsummer, when she is at her height.
The most important symbols of Yule are still with us today. Most of
the supposedly secular customs of Christmas are actually Pagan in
origin. Evergreen trees and holly which remained green throughout the
long nights and cold were a promise that spring would once again
return to the land. These symbols may also have been a connection to
the nature spirits who have sway over the return of the warm days. The
modern conception of Santa Claus as an elf, for whom offerings of milk
and cookies are left, is possibly a modern continuation of leaving
offerings for the Alvar and other nature spirits. The idea of
children staying up all night in the hopes of catching a glimpse of
Santa Claus may be a remnant of people staying awake to mark the long
night and remind the sun to return. (In the latter case its
considered an adequate substitution to leave a candle going all night
to light the way for the returning sun.)
Yule is a weeks long festival, not just a single holiday. The Yule
season begins on the solstice, which is the Mother Night of Yule, and
ends with Twelfth Night on January sixth. As a point of interest,
January seventh is St. Distaffs day, which Nigel Pennic has
suggested may have been a day sacred to Frigg, whose symbol is the
distaff.
While one might expect a rather dour theme to a holiday held in the
darkness and cold, Yule is a time of feasting and gladness.
The most important custom at Yule for modern Pagans is the swearing of
Yule oaths. Our kindred does this at Twelfth Night (aka New Years
Eve). We hold a sumbel and we keep the Yule wreath handy for anyone
who wishes to swear an oath for the coming year.
There are simply so many different Yule customs, both ancient and
modern, that one has almost limitless possibilities even when staying
within Scandanavian and Germanic customs. In modern practice one
might honor Sunna on the Mother Night, then hold a blot a few days
later to Thor, a feast for New Years day which is shared with the
house and land spirits, and then finish on Twelfth Night with a ritual
to Frey, whose time is then officially beginning.
Summer Finding
Summer Finding is also known to many groups as Ostara, the holiday
sacred